Meaningless Schoolboard Quote... If you are outside without an umbrella or coat and it is raining, you are probably wet.
Monday, December 29, 2008
Oh What A Wonderful Life
After two days of non stop playing with Lily, well I don't know if it is literally non stop. I do know that it was A LOT of playing. Anyway she was feeling left out tonight. I spent the day cleaning and getting the house in semi order, only to have 10 girls stomp through my house on the way to their Girl Scout skating party. Funny enough, Bret pal'd up with a friend of hers from Brenda's troop. And Brenda found her own comfort zone worth of friends. My troop co-leader brought along her older daughter who was an older Girl Scout. I found out today that her troop disbanded this year, for whatever reason. We talked a bit about her becoming a Juliette for a while until something else comes up. (That is where with the help of an adult she works as an independent Girl Scout.) She could sell cookies to earn money for her camp and whatever else she wants to do, work ahead without the actual troop. She seemed interested. For some of the Girl Scouts there today with us, it was a great learning experience of what they do NOT want to do again. Some of them were begging for more skating parties. I'd say we all learned something... Like how bruises don't kill you for instance. He he he. Just a couple more weeks and we are heading camping. Whoooooo hooooo. What fun. Two nights of no sleep for me. ;-)
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Do you WANT TO make a difference...
Fight Global Warming; Go Vegan!
by david baake
http://www.opednews.com/articles/opedne_david_ba_070513_fight_global_warming.htm
"Probably the easiest, cheapest, and most effective way to reduce your contribution to climate change is to adopt a vegan diet, or at least reduce your consumption of animal products. According to the United Nations, “raising animals for food generates more greenhouse gases than all the cars and trucks in the world combined...”
Thinking of making a change?? Start small, if you can't go all gung ho. Since Bret and I have gone vegan, we have noticed that some things are easier for the kids than others... Change their milk... not so easy. Change from butter to Earth Balance natural buttery spread (vegan substitute), easy for everyone. Change to vegan cheese, easier for the younger kids, not so easy for the teens. Veganaise? Good for some, not so easy for others. Since I switched to Vegenaise... the smell of mayonaise makes me gag now. I am hooked on Vegenaise. I couldn't go back to mayo if I wanted to. Eggs, haven't had them in I cannot remember how long. Chicken, I have eaten that a time or two.
If you are trying to make a change in your life, remember!!! Every little bit counts. If everyone changed just a LITTLE bit it would make a big difference. Don't beat yourself up because you didn't change ENOUGH today. You are beautiful how you are. You aspire. You dream. And some day you will see that you already are...
by david baake
http://www.opednews.com/articles/opedne_david_ba_070513_fight_global_warming.htm
"Probably the easiest, cheapest, and most effective way to reduce your contribution to climate change is to adopt a vegan diet, or at least reduce your consumption of animal products. According to the United Nations, “raising animals for food generates more greenhouse gases than all the cars and trucks in the world combined...”
Thinking of making a change?? Start small, if you can't go all gung ho. Since Bret and I have gone vegan, we have noticed that some things are easier for the kids than others... Change their milk... not so easy. Change from butter to Earth Balance natural buttery spread (vegan substitute), easy for everyone. Change to vegan cheese, easier for the younger kids, not so easy for the teens. Veganaise? Good for some, not so easy for others. Since I switched to Vegenaise... the smell of mayonaise makes me gag now. I am hooked on Vegenaise. I couldn't go back to mayo if I wanted to. Eggs, haven't had them in I cannot remember how long. Chicken, I have eaten that a time or two.
If you are trying to make a change in your life, remember!!! Every little bit counts. If everyone changed just a LITTLE bit it would make a big difference. Don't beat yourself up because you didn't change ENOUGH today. You are beautiful how you are. You aspire. You dream. And some day you will see that you already are...
New old pics just because I found them...
Learn something new
This month's wallpaper is blue...
Though it's better known for shades of red, the Grand Canyon is shrouded in blue as night descends on its foggy, snow-covered walls. The canyon's north rim is typically closed to vehicles in winter.
Photograph by Michael Nichols
Brought to you by National Geographic photography. Do you have a blue picture of amazingness to showcase? January is put-an-amazing-blue-pic-on-your-computer-wallpaper month. Just DO IT...
Though it's better known for shades of red, the Grand Canyon is shrouded in blue as night descends on its foggy, snow-covered walls. The canyon's north rim is typically closed to vehicles in winter.
Photograph by Michael Nichols
Brought to you by National Geographic photography. Do you have a blue picture of amazingness to showcase? January is put-an-amazing-blue-pic-on-your-computer-wallpaper month. Just DO IT...
Circle
Here is what I saw through Celeste's special glasses. A normal Christmas tree with a special Chanakkah twist...
Here are the glasses...
Do we look like we are circling around the Winter Solstice?? And celebrating Chanakkah and Christmas? We did all of that and soo much more. It has been a few months since I have been able to make a Drumming Circle. The last one was amazing, I heard, but I was in Tennessee, learning more about the wonderful world of unschooling. So it was great to get together with the girls again. Wild Women, you are amazing. You inspire me to be who I forgot I was. I came home feeling like I had visited again the world of Avalon. Thank you all for being there for me.
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Bret and her Beanie
Here is Bret with her new beanie. Both girls totally had to have this beanie. I told them IF I bought this beanie for them they M-U-S-T MUST MUST MUST wear it to every meeting with their sash that they just had to have. They swear that they will so here it is! At Bret's last meeting (the Christmas party) I needed an extra hand and asked for Brenda's help as a senior Brownie. Both girls were there at that meeting with their sashes AND beanies. So we will see.
Before... and After
(My husband) Bret decided he wanted to get dread locks. I have wanted them for a while. When Josh had them I loved them and thought they were the coolest. So we bought the special bees wax with no petroleum in it (that just makes the wax like vasoline, sticky and goopy, I remember from Josh's hair), and decided to practice on me. It might be a while before Bret's hair is long enough. In fact I remember when we did Josh's so long ago, that Bret had wanted to do his hair too, but he never did. Corporate look and all, I guess, who knows. Life happens. Anyway three days and HOURS later...
Ta daaaaaaa! What fun! But let me warn you if you do get this done to you... There is a lot of pain involved. Now I realize that having my perfectionist husband do my hair made the whole experience last longer than normal (like DAYS longer) but even done professionally, it is painful!
So here is what we did. First we went to Knottyboy.com and checked out their video. That was very helpful and would have been great to have for Josh's hair, way back when. Then we bought their shampoo bar, their wax, and their wooden comb (in Bret's opinion, a must-have). For my hair it took an entire jar of the 8oz. wax, but I do have a lot of hair. So anyway, next I washed my hair with their Knottyboy shampoo bar which totally took any softness out of my hair and made it impossible to brush, duh. I dried my hair and crimped it with my crimp iron (this gave it lots of frizz for the dreading process). And Bret got to work, back combing pulling, waxing, and palm roll, palm roll, palm roll (Bret, it turns out, is a backcombing maniac, and that was the painful part). A couple days later, here I was like new, only dreadlier.
Lovin it!
See you soon and Merry Christmas. Happy Chanukah, as today is the first day of THAT holiday. It is also the Sunday Solstice Celebration for us Wild Women so I will be at the drumming circle all night tonight celebrating so many things that are wonderful in my life. And there are plenty.
So to all my many many friends (and it just occurrs to me now how many that be) thank you ALL for being in my life with me. Thank you for sharing your part in my last year, and do stick around for the next one too! I will surely miss you if you don't!
Which do you prefer? Let me know. BUT BE NICE!!
Saturday, December 20, 2008
I don't want that to happen to me...
Marley and I were emersed in bathroom conversation this morning while I was taking a bath. She usually graces me with her presence when I am in the bath. We were talking about getting bigger and older for quite a bit already.
"I don't want bigger to happen to me", she said.
"Well then you should stop eating," I told her half in jest.
"Why?"
"Eating, along with sleeping and exercising, sunlight, learning, and some other stuff, will help you grow up."
She thought about this for a minute. "Well, I am still hungry." And with this she was off to see what there was for breakfast in the fridge.
We spent some time looking at pictures of Dad and me as babies and little kids with her. We showed her how Dad and I both had moms and dads when we were little. Now we are big and we are the mom and dad. Still she wants to stay little forever. But it was fun to look at the pictures.
"I don't want bigger to happen to me", she said.
"Well then you should stop eating," I told her half in jest.
"Why?"
"Eating, along with sleeping and exercising, sunlight, learning, and some other stuff, will help you grow up."
She thought about this for a minute. "Well, I am still hungry." And with this she was off to see what there was for breakfast in the fridge.
We spent some time looking at pictures of Dad and me as babies and little kids with her. We showed her how Dad and I both had moms and dads when we were little. Now we are big and we are the mom and dad. Still she wants to stay little forever. But it was fun to look at the pictures.
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Christmas Party/ Gingerbread House Parade
Pin the Nose on Rudolph
Lilian's magnificant house creation. She ate most of the candy and put some of it on the house. Then I told her it was time to have a snack. She said ok and left to go get her snack. She bipassed the table where everyone brought a snack to share and headed to the table with the gingerbread house candy on it. She came back to me with handfulls of candy telling me that she had her snack. Ha ha ha. I think she was so focused on the candy she didn't realize there was another table with cookies, chips and actual foods.
Saturday, December 13, 2008
Learn a little through pictures
Brought to us by National Geographic
Lacking any other defense, many larval fish have adapted
transparency as a method of camouflage—such as this tiny, see-through larval
leaf scorpionfish in Hawaii. Photograph by Chris Newbert/Minden Pictures
A goby fish (Trimma okinawae) peers out of a sea anemone in
the Solomon Islands. Gobies are serial sex-changers: They can go through both
male and female phases. Photograph by Wolcott Henry
As if bathed in moonlight, a giant spider crab (Macrocheira
kaemferi) is illuminated by a diver's lamp in Japan's Izu Oceanic Park.
Protected from some predators by its hard exoskeleton, the creature—which can
grow to ten feet (three meters) wide—can also blend in with the ocean floor.
Under deeper cover, it can disappear beneath the sponges and other marine life
it uses to adorn its shell. Photograph by David Doubilet
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
Hustle and Bustle
Parties, shopping, Girl Scout meetings, dance classes, parent meetings, Co ops, and much much more. With everything going on, I will be taking much of the month off from blogging. Next month we will start Girl Scout cookie sales, both troops will have their first overnight at a GS lodge with another troop, we will be making NewYear resolutions, and much much more, I am sure. I will pop in a couple times to say hi, but in case you don't hear from us before hand, Happy Holidays to all of yours!!!
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Two Days of Snow
For the last two days, since the first snow, the girls have been all about sledding, snowballs, and pitiful snow men. There wasn't tons of snow, but that doesn't deter the twinkle in their eyes when they see it falling. Today I even convinced Daddy Bret to get out and do some sledding with the girls.
Friday, December 5, 2008
Happenings
Bret had the best time at the Co op. She met a new "best friend". They all seem to be best friends for her lately. One of her teachers told her that she could be an artist and make any kinds of sculptures she wanted. So she made this tonight. Brenda said it was just a bunch of stuff piled on top of itself. I said one man's junk is another man's art. (or woman, anyway) Bret is too excited to pay any attention to Brenda's naysaying today. :-)
Brenda and I hung out at the museum center with Marley. The huge train room was set up for the holiday. Brenda did a scavanger hunt.
Really... my day went like this. We went to get Bret settled in at the co op 9:30. Then we headed over to the grocery to pick up more yogurt. (We picked up yogurt yesterday for lunch today, but Gaige ate it when we weren't looking.) After the grocery, we headed to Deanne's house to pick up the small boxes she got us for the gingerbread houses the kids are going to make at the Christmas party next week. By the time we got to the museum it was after 11. We ate first because we figured the school kids on field trips would be eating around 12 so the museum would clear out when we got down there. After lunch we played for a bit, then we connected with some unschoolers at 12:30. At 1:30 we were out the door heading back to the co op to pick up Bret by 2:00. We haven't had a day like that in a while. I have a craft I want to do with the girls. Then I am making Christmas aprons for us so we can make Christmas cookies in style! That is my excitement.
I got some yarn from the dollar store yesterday. Maybe I will start making a hat.
Really... my day went like this. We went to get Bret settled in at the co op 9:30. Then we headed over to the grocery to pick up more yogurt. (We picked up yogurt yesterday for lunch today, but Gaige ate it when we weren't looking.) After the grocery, we headed to Deanne's house to pick up the small boxes she got us for the gingerbread houses the kids are going to make at the Christmas party next week. By the time we got to the museum it was after 11. We ate first because we figured the school kids on field trips would be eating around 12 so the museum would clear out when we got down there. After lunch we played for a bit, then we connected with some unschoolers at 12:30. At 1:30 we were out the door heading back to the co op to pick up Bret by 2:00. We haven't had a day like that in a while. I have a craft I want to do with the girls. Then I am making Christmas aprons for us so we can make Christmas cookies in style! That is my excitement.
I got some yarn from the dollar store yesterday. Maybe I will start making a hat.
I got this from National Geographic yesterday
The Co op
Today little 7yo Bret wakes up early pumping with excitement for her chance to go to the magnificant co op. Last year, I sent Brenda and Gaige because that was all we could afford. And Bret cried. "You don't think I can do it. You don't think I can go there!" But really I just thought the older kids could get more out of it. But when I see the classes that I put her in, I think maybe I was wrong. She is my creative child. Loves to explore, touch, feel, dream. This is right up her alley.
Her schedule...
Children of the world...
This class is your passport to places near & far - designed to give children a hands-on experience about children of many cultures: their customs, daily life, foods, artforms, & language. Get your passport & sign-up for the adventures that await you! Cooking will be included, as we try our hand at some international food recipes.
Creative Discovery...
Students strengthen their creative and critical thinking skills in lessons presented by characters Dudley the Detective, Sybil the Scientist, Isabel the Inventor, Yolanda the Yarnspinner, Jordan the Judge, and Max the Magician. Children discover and develop parts of their brains that allow them to think like a detective, scientist, inventor, and storyteller. They learn how to make wise decisions and to exercise their visual/spatial perception. Costumes and role-playing combined with high level thinking activities make this class fabulous, important, and fun!
Imagination Station...
Fun using your imagination using different materials making/creating crafts (puppets, game characters, recycle creatures, making things out of natural objects, incorporating crafts from all over the world). It will be a crazy, fun and wild time!
And what will Brenda, Lilian and I be doing today? We have a date at the museum center with some other unschoolers. There was another cool activity today, but we are opting for free these days. The family that was going to share the rooms with me for the February gathering backed out. I will be paying more for that vacation now. Which is fine. But time to save some more money.
Her schedule...
Children of the world...
This class is your passport to places near & far - designed to give children a hands-on experience about children of many cultures: their customs, daily life, foods, artforms, & language. Get your passport & sign-up for the adventures that await you! Cooking will be included, as we try our hand at some international food recipes.
Creative Discovery...
Students strengthen their creative and critical thinking skills in lessons presented by characters Dudley the Detective, Sybil the Scientist, Isabel the Inventor, Yolanda the Yarnspinner, Jordan the Judge, and Max the Magician. Children discover and develop parts of their brains that allow them to think like a detective, scientist, inventor, and storyteller. They learn how to make wise decisions and to exercise their visual/spatial perception. Costumes and role-playing combined with high level thinking activities make this class fabulous, important, and fun!
Imagination Station...
Fun using your imagination using different materials making/creating crafts (puppets, game characters, recycle creatures, making things out of natural objects, incorporating crafts from all over the world). It will be a crazy, fun and wild time!
And what will Brenda, Lilian and I be doing today? We have a date at the museum center with some other unschoolers. There was another cool activity today, but we are opting for free these days. The family that was going to share the rooms with me for the February gathering backed out. I will be paying more for that vacation now. Which is fine. But time to save some more money.
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Girl Scouting in December
For about two years I have been talking to Brenda about my helping her put a newsletter together for her Girl Scout troop. We tried to set it up with the other troop unsuccessfully, then I just dropped it eventually. This year, I mentioned it in passing. I guess this was the year that she was ready to start putting it together. Brenda and her friend, Emma, have decided to make a newsletter for the girls in their troop for their next meeting.
Bret's troop meeting was today. The girls have done crafty stuff for the last couple meetings and I felt that they wanted to pick things up a bit. So we worked on the Games Around the World try-it badge today. Those girls can be HIGH ENERGY. Lots of fun. It wears me out. This month both troops are going rollerskating at a Girl Scout Skate Party during Christmas break together. So far 7 of the girls in Bret's troop are going. Most likely all the girls in Brenda's troop of 8 will go also. We will be a big group. Hopefully skating will wear tire them out. :-)
Bret's troop meeting was today. The girls have done crafty stuff for the last couple meetings and I felt that they wanted to pick things up a bit. So we worked on the Games Around the World try-it badge today. Those girls can be HIGH ENERGY. Lots of fun. It wears me out. This month both troops are going rollerskating at a Girl Scout Skate Party during Christmas break together. So far 7 of the girls in Bret's troop are going. Most likely all the girls in Brenda's troop of 8 will go also. We will be a big group. Hopefully skating will wear tire them out. :-)
Clocks
Brenda came to me today and asked if I could teach her how to read a clock. So we worked on it for a few minutes. She asked if we could work on it a bunch of times so she would remember it. I told her we could work a few minutes every day until it sinks in good. That's all. I love it when I they bring something to me that THEY want to learn.
UPDATE: Later yesterday we were at the bank depositing money when Brenda saw a clock. She figured out the time herself. Then she noticed that the clock was stopped and the time was not right. So she hunted out another clock in the same bank and proceeded to find the real time. Learning can be such excitement.
UPDATE: Later yesterday we were at the bank depositing money when Brenda saw a clock. She figured out the time herself. Then she noticed that the clock was stopped and the time was not right. So she hunted out another clock in the same bank and proceeded to find the real time. Learning can be such excitement.
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
December Quotes of the Week
Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds."
Albert Einstein
If you want happiness for an hour; take a nap. If you want happiness for a day; go fishing. If you want happiness for a month; get married. If you want happiness for a year; inherit a fortune. If you want happiness for a lifetime; help someone else.
Chinese proverb
Albert Einstein
"Have you learned the lessons only of those who admired you, and were tender with you, and stood aside for you? Have you not learned great lessons from those who braced themselves against you, and disputed passage with you?"
Walt Whitman
"Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear."
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
If you want happiness for an hour; take a nap. If you want happiness for a day; go fishing. If you want happiness for a month; get married. If you want happiness for a year; inherit a fortune. If you want happiness for a lifetime; help someone else.
Chinese proverb
Current Activities
I was redirecting my energy toward what I have going on these days. A good friend called me yesterday. We haven't talked in probably at least a year. So that was exciting. I was telling her that my boys have gone back to public school. She asked if Brenda wouldn't be wanting to do that soon? I told her I don't think so, because she has plenty of friends to play with after school, she has activities to meet new girls, and she has become quite the homebody during the day. We hang out at home during the day, then she is off to play with friends after school. She even decided not to go to the co op this year. It is just Bret. So I started thinking about how busy we were last year and what we are up to this year.
Monday - Free
Tuesday - Brenda dances pm
Wednesday - Bret dances pm (sometimes story time for Marley am)
I forgot to say we swim Wednesday nights at the local school pool
Thursday - Girl Scouts (alternating weeks for the girls) pm
Friday - usually free or an activity of one sort. This Friday we are meeting up with some Unschoolers at the Museum Center.
Not abnoxiously busy like we used to be. It feels good to have that time at home to do other things. As well I have been holding back on activities that cost more money. We are saving up for the February Gathering. (I am throwing my lodging dilema into the free universe that the answer will come back to me in an obvious way.)
Monday - Free
Tuesday - Brenda dances pm
Wednesday - Bret dances pm (sometimes story time for Marley am)
I forgot to say we swim Wednesday nights at the local school pool
Thursday - Girl Scouts (alternating weeks for the girls) pm
Friday - usually free or an activity of one sort. This Friday we are meeting up with some Unschoolers at the Museum Center.
Not abnoxiously busy like we used to be. It feels good to have that time at home to do other things. As well I have been holding back on activities that cost more money. We are saving up for the February Gathering. (I am throwing my lodging dilema into the free universe that the answer will come back to me in an obvious way.)
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Chanukah Celebrations
Brenda asked if we celebrate Chanukah or if it is only for Jewish people. I told her it is traditionally a Jewish holiday, but if she would like we could celebrate it here this year. "But we are getting Christmas presents", she worried. I said we could do dollar store presents or homemade. She liked that idea. So look for more on our Chanukah experience later this month. Must go to find some dreidels and a menorah. Some matzah, and a Jewish holiday cook book for fun.
Marley is sick
Marley puked all over us in bed last night. She is feeling fine today. But at the time it was big drama, as you might well imagine. I rushed her to the bathroom to finish throwing up in the toilet. Then she sat on the bed watching Care Bears while I cleaned the sheets and blankets. I asked her if she felt alright now.
She said, "Yes, I am alive now."
So I asked, "You feel better?"
She replied, "Yes, but what does it look like?"
"Spaghetti." (that was dinner. Ewwwww!!)
Thankfully we are all better this morning.
She said, "Yes, I am alive now."
So I asked, "You feel better?"
She replied, "Yes, but what does it look like?"
"Spaghetti." (that was dinner. Ewwwww!!)
Thankfully we are all better this morning.
Potato Head Day
Thanksgiving Festivities
We started out with a Thanksgiving Feast with some homeschoolers. We learned about the first thanksgiving, played some Indian and Pilgrim Games, made yarn dolls. Then we feasted on traditional Thanksgiving food, which of course was not the original Thanksgiving food. After that it was time to start making some Thanksgiving food of our own. Each of the kids helped make something.
Thanksgiving Day, Bret took Josh and his friend Tyler hunting for bird. They were excited partake in their first ever hunting experience. Unfortunately no birds to bring home.
We cooked a turkey at home while the men (from left to right) Dwayne (who usually doesn't hunt with them) Daryl, Paul, Bret, and Scotty (a good family friend) were closing up for the day. They caught two birds in all. It is a good thing we bought the turkey, but still a fun tradition for the guys I am sure. The girls and I cooked pies, dressing, turkey, veggies, stuffing, all the usual. And we feasted all weekend until it was all gone. Which it now is.
Lily Turns 3
Friday, November 28, 2008
Up Watching TV with the Kids
Brenda and Bret have been up with me in bed for hours. We are watching a Mork and Mindy marathon on the SciFi channel. A channel that we seldom go to. But it is Mork and Mindy so how can we go wrong. It is almost 12, but big Bret is playing out tonight. So it is just me, the girls and oldies late night tv.
Monday, November 24, 2008
Public School
So Gaige starts public school tomorrow. Brenda and Bret are hoping that the schedule will work out for them to replace Gaige in the co-op. Gaige and Brenda went last year for one day a week, but when Gaige wanted to switch to the two day a week classes, there wasn't enough money for them both to go. Now that Gaige is out, Bret is hoping to have her chance at the fun amazing co-op. So if all works out with the schedule, both the girls will start going one day a week, and Marley and I will hang out and have some time together. That will be special for the older girls, and special for Marley as well.
Gaige didn't get the schedule he hoped for with all his friends. But I am sure he will have just as much fun with the classes he has. As I explained to him already, they can put him anywhere they choose to. It is called compulsary education. They are in charge. :-)
Gaige didn't get the schedule he hoped for with all his friends. But I am sure he will have just as much fun with the classes he has. As I explained to him already, they can put him anywhere they choose to. It is called compulsary education. They are in charge. :-)
Saturday, November 22, 2008
Music Class
Brenda today asked me to play a Christmas carol on the bells with her. I transposed a basic form of Santa Clause is Coming to Town into the Bell numbers and we played it a couple times. BUT there was supposed to be an A#(number 6# on the bells). I didn't feel like getting the # bells out so we just played a B instead. She didn't seem to notice or at least she didn't say anything about it. Next she excitedly asked me to put it into letters so she could play it on the piano. I did, except this time I put the A# in and asked explained to her what that was and how to use it. She practiced her new music on the piano. Later in the day she asked me write out another Christmas song for bells. I did but she felt like it was too hard for her and she wanted to go back to the one she was working on. Imediate gradification. How could I not relate? We played Santa Clause is Coming to Town again. The girl noticed that the B didn't sound right and told me that she had the wrong bell. I had to go into the handbell bag and get out the A# for her. Just thought it was a funny story. She has learned Santa Clause is Coming to Town. She had a blast learning it. She doesn't read music on the piano. But I put letter stickers on the piano and I write the letters out. She decides how long to make a note based on what she knows sounds right. She only wants to play songs she knows anyway. I am perfectly happy with this learning and she is having so much fun. So now that I have said all this read on...
I saw a post recently about a homeschooler family that won an award for doing this really great project. Many people posted in to congradulate the children and family. It sounded really cool. I was impressed. I am often impressed and excited for children who are homeschoolers and get recognized for the wonderful things that they do. It is a big deal. Yet when I saw the post (which I saw before our music and bells fun) in the back of my head, I thought about how my kids just want to play. They don't seem to enjoy doing schooly things, even in what feels to me to be unschooly ways. I opted out of the Geography fair, biography fair, and maybe even the science fair this year, because my kids just have no interest in doing a project. In past years, it was me doing most of the work, and the kids gluing things that I cut out and put together onto a board. I don't know if they were learning a thing. I fear that left to their own devices they just want to play. Even as Brenda enjoys to read at night and learn small blurts of music, I am overly aware of the times that she is just having a good time playing with friends. I start to feel for a moment that my kids are falling behind. That they are not getting all the best opportunities. They don't have the same push behind them of loving motivation. Then I remember Brenda crying while trying to practice her cello. I remember all the work that I put into teaching the kids things, and all the work they put into not learning those same things. And I see how easily Brenda learned the tune on both bells and piano. I am softened by the thought that we can learn geography without a rushed fair project. We have done many science projects this year, without a fair. And some I did myself. The girls got interested after it was put together. It is ok. They are doing just fine.
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Christmas is Coming Up
Wow oh wow. All the happenings coming up. Wednesday is Lilian's third birthday AND Decorate Your Potato Head Day. In case you are not aware from previous years, Josh years ago was asked to make up a new holiday. This was his holiday. It is the day before Thanksgiving. We all get a potato to decorate into whatever we want. Such heads have included: fish, Owls, old faces of men, and much much more. We will celebrate Lilian's birthday this weekend so we don't have a birthday AND holiday all on the same day. Next year she will turn 4 on Thanksgiving.
A few days ago I sang Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer to Lil. She has loved the song ever since and asks me to sing it over and over again. She is getting in the spirit of Christmas. She has been asking me to put up the tree for weeks. She can't stand it that Christmas isn't here yet. Totally she gets that this man in the red suit will bring her lots of presents soon. She is soo excited. So we decorated a bit early. Just the dining room. But we put up the stockings and our small tree. What a blast. And we listened to Christmas music while we worked.
Then there was the pool for a few hours this evening. The local pool opens to the town public for free swim. They are all asleep now. Whooo!
Oh so here is new news. Gaige told us the other day that he can't wait to go to school. So we (Bret and I) were like then why are you still going to the co-op? Go to school if that's what you want. Well, turns out that IS what he wants. He likes the co-op. And it is sooo not about school and learning anything. He wants to be at the school his friends go to. He wants to hang out with them in school and come home to hang out at home. He does have plenty of homeschool friends. But the kids he hangs out with most of all are at the school across the street from our house. That is where he wants to be, so he can hang out with his friends. Is it going to be that easy? Maybe... maybe not. Do I REALLY believe in letting my kids find their own way? Off he goes to find his own way. I told him that everything can be undone at any time. If he doesn't like it and wants to try other options or go back to the co-op, homeschooling, online public school, whatever, he can change at ANY TIME. His choice, his decision, his life. I will be ok with his decisions, no matter what. More details as they arise...
Monday, November 17, 2008
Behind the Scenes Ballet Tour: Nutcracker
Wow again, I had FOUR families cancel on me the day of the ballet tour. Luckily three families did not cancel and we were able to go on with the tour. It was a great tour! Some of the cool things...
Each pair of toe shoes... $60.00. How long do they last? Two days at the most. How much does the ballet company spend on ballet shoes for their girls yearly? About $80,000. A YEAR.
Here is one of the lovely seamstresses showing us how she sews the dresses, tutus, and other costumes. All gems must be hand sewn. Hours and hours of work for each outfit.
Here we are entering the wardrobe storage room. She is holding up the crocodile and dog heads from the Ballet Peter Pan. Those heads were also hand made in the studio. Hand making the costumes and renting them out to other ballet companies and shows is one of the ways they subsidize the cost of the shoes (among other costs, I am sure...)
Here is one of the lovely seamstresses showing us how she sews the dresses, tutus, and other costumes. All gems must be hand sewn. Hours and hours of work for each outfit.
Here we are entering the wardrobe storage room. She is holding up the crocodile and dog heads from the Ballet Peter Pan. Those heads were also hand made in the studio. Hand making the costumes and renting them out to other ballet companies and shows is one of the ways they subsidize the cost of the shoes (among other costs, I am sure...)
Look Bret is a ballet fairy pig... Well she is among the dancing pigs anyway. At the end of the tour we got to sit and watch some of the ballet practice for the Nutcracker. Our tour guide held on a bit long with the hopes that we would get to see them dance a good portion of their dance. But mostly they were just going over their parts. It got a little long for my girls. They might do better at the actual ballet where there are costumes and constant dancing. It was a great tour. We all enjoyed it. But I think I will be canceling the last tour. I don't have a problem getting RSVP's, funny enough. The hard part is getting people to actually show up. ;-)
Why Brenda Likes to Read...
Hey Mom, ya know why I like to read so much lately?
Why?
Cuz it's like watching tv in your head. This way I am always watching tv no matter where I am.
Yes, it is like watching tv for me too when I read. That is why I like it too.
Why?
Cuz it's like watching tv in your head. This way I am always watching tv no matter where I am.
Yes, it is like watching tv for me too when I read. That is why I like it too.
Sunday, November 16, 2008
The Firebird
I took my two Girl Scouts troops to see the shadow puppet show of "The Firebird". The show was good, but what was better was afterwards when we got to meet the puppeteers and see how the puppets worked, what went into making them, and how they made certain scenes work. That is totally something the girls and I could do. I am wondering how I can come up with simpler versions of their supplies...
Another day at the Museum
We try to frequent as many play museums as we can every year. I have been doing this since Gaige was a baby. Periodically through the year, we would take a small vacation and travel around to other Childrens Museums and Discovery Museums looking for learning that looks like fun. Here is one of our recent adventures. We try to get here once a year for something different.
Yogurt in the Bath
Marley has been into taking bubble baths in the kitchen sink lately. This day she had the clever idea to combine bathing and eating. When Brenda and Bret were little, sometimes they would take a popsicle into the bath with them. It was EASY clean-up, and the fun of doing something that somewhat felt taboo for them (being allowed to eat outside the kitchen/diningroom areas).
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Music
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